You only get one life to live. You can spend your life complaining about the things you didn’t do. You can spend it blaming other people for holding you back. You can spend it in a state of depression, because you’re obsessing over your regrets. OR you can start where you are and make the best of the rest of your life.
I wanted to be the smartest in class, the prettiest girl in the room, the best dressed, etc. Whenever I noticed that someone else was further along than myself, I would clinch my fists and wonder why my life wasn’t different. I spent years downplaying other people’s accomplishments, because I wasn’t happy with my own.
Then, I realized I needed to make something great happen, rather than to expect something great to happen to me. That’s when I started working diligently toward my goals.
It is never too late to make a change. Only you can live your life. No one else can live it for you. Don’t allow any more time to pass without you living on purpose. It doesn’t matter how long it takes, as long as you’re in motion.
I am going to just assume that you have already heard of the saying “Faith and fear cannot coexist.” Just in case you haven’t heard it by some chance, it means that you have to choose one or the other. You can’t be fearful and be faithful at the same time. It just doesn’t make sense, and it doesn’t work. It’s impossible, in fact. I know that many people, myself included, have said time and time again that nothing is impossible, but this actually is the exception to the rule. Read more →
Like everybody else in the world who is trying to do something better with their life, I jumped on the vision board bandwagon. I was all in as a member of Oprah’s LifeClass, and I was so ready to start manifesting everything that I wanted. The problem…I wasn’t ready (in my Kevin Hart voice). No doubt, I wanted the things that I had cut out and pasted onto my board, but I made two mistakes. Read more →
When most people finally decide to live their dream for real, they feel excited and ready to take on the world. Although having this feeling is great, the next move that the dreamer makes isn’t always the best. A lot of the time, the daring dreamer has no idea how to get started, or has no idea as to how things work, and they end up making the same 5 dreamer mistakes that cost them valuable time and money.
I must say that I only know these things, because I made these mistakes myself, and as more and more people decide to step out on faith and live their own dreams, I am seeing a lot of them head right down that same ugly road. Read more →