You Hold The Remote Control to Your Life’s Story

You Hold The Remote Control to Your Life’s Story

Morning Motivation with Andriea DeniseYou are in control. You have control over what you think, what you wear, where you go, what you do, what you eat, who you talk to, etc. Because you have control over so much of your life, you shouldn’t stress when you find that there is something that you can’t control.

Whenever something proves to be out of your control, take your power back by controlling how you respond to the situation. You can always control what happens next. Spend your time focusing on the things that serve you, rather than the things that put you in a negative space. Thinking about something that can’t be changed does nothing but waste your time. Be productive. Be positive. Be proactive.

Move to the next moment, and figure out how you can make things better. Don’t be afraid to ask for help either. We are all here to serve one another in some way. You don’t have to have all of the answers. You can control how you solve an issue. You can control who you go to for help. You can control who you help.

Life is all about choices. I know that I say this a lot, but it’s only because it’s true. You can choose to be down on yourself, thinking about the things that you can’t control or change. OR you can choose to be positive and focus on the things that you do have control over, and focus on the things that you can change.

Take Action: Decide to change your perception, and make the best of the things you have control over.

Relationships Are Give And Take…Kinda

Relationships Are Give And Take…Kinda


Marriage, like all other relationships are give and take in nature. I admit, sometimes you may feel like you’re doing all the giving, but the other half of your relationship may also feel like he/she is giving a lot more than you. I’ve said this before, but marriage is meshing two sets of habits, upbringings, and preferences. This is never an easy process, because it’s like shedding pieces of yourself in order to live harmoniously with the other person.
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Women Who Look for Validation from Men

Women Who Look for Validation from Men

It is so easy for women to get caught up in basing our self-worth on the validation we receive from men. Regardless of when we were born, our entire lives were probably geared toward what kind of woman we needed to become to attract a certain man. Some girls, maybe born to a feminist mother, may have been taught to be strong and independent apart from a man. For the most part, though, women are taught to dress and act for men, and whenever they whistle or call after us, we feel good inside because we now understand that we have done well in our preparation. Read more