You are in control. You have control over what you think, what you wear, where you go, what you do, what you eat, who you talk to, etc. Because you have control over so much of your life, you shouldn’t stress when you find that there is something that you can’t control.
Whenever something proves to be out of your control, take your power back by controlling how you respond to the situation. You can always control what happens next. Spend your time focusing on the things that serve you, rather than the things that put you in a negative space. Thinking about something that can’t be changed does nothing but waste your time. Be productive. Be positive. Be proactive.
Move to the next moment, and figure out how you can make things better. Don’t be afraid to ask for help either. We are all here to serve one another in some way. You don’t have to have all of the answers. You can control how you solve an issue. You can control who you go to for help. You can control who you help.
Life is all about choices. I know that I say this a lot, but it’s only because it’s true. You can choose to be down on yourself, thinking about the things that you can’t control or change. OR you can choose to be positive and focus on the things that you do have control over, and focus on the things that you can change.
Take Action: Decide to change your perception, and make the best of the things you have control over.
Whatever you want, you can have it. It all starts with a decision. You are in control. Too many people are sitting back, chilling, and waiting on God to work a miracle. Those people have decided to ignore the scripture that tells us faith without works is dead, and they wind up disappointed in God, because their expectations weren’t met.
From my own experience, I’m telling you that you can have exactly what you want. You just have to know that you are in control, make the decision to have the things you desire, and then work toward those things. Taking small steps toward anything on a consistent basis will help more things along those lines to come to you.
So, what do you want? Do you believe that you are in control of what manifests in your life? Whether you believe it or not, it is true. It is one of the universal laws. You don’t have to believe in gravity for it to be in existence. Once you accept this truth, you may be able to better handle manifesting what you want.
Okay so I am having trouble getting out of this negative cycle I’m in. It seems like nothing I do make a difference in my life. I try to say that I want something good, but only bad comes my way. Every guy I’ve dated has done me dirty. My job is okay but it doesn’t pay me enough money. I’m tired of seeing other people do better than me when I want the same things they have. I watched The Secret and I did what it said and I’m still getting the same results. I’m only asking you, because I read your stories about how you used to be in crazy situations, but you got to a point where you don’t do that stuff no more. I mean, you got what you want in life, so I need help to get what I want for my life. Can you help me please? Read more →
Most people have been conditioned, through trying life experiences, to be negative thinkers. Because of this conditioning, they have adopted a mindset that reiterates the same lies to them on a daily basis. It doesn’t take a math whiz to understand that constant repetition of anything will program your subconscious to believe it. This is why most people don’t live their dreams, make the money they want, or even find love. Read more →